How to adopt and animal-Even when they wont adopt you!

Many people dream of having a pet. Whether it’s a goldfish, bird, hamster, rabbit, dog, pony, or a cat, pets bring joy and companionship into our lives.

When my parents chose my first cat, he was just a kitten. I promised to feed him, clean up after him, let him outside, and bring him in. It was clear then, as it is now: a pet is a member of the family.

Pets need food, water, a safe place to sleep, toys, attention, and love. Caring for an animal is a commitment that brings happiness, responsibility, and plenty of cuddles.

Why Adopt from an Animal Shelter?

Many people think shelters only have puppies and kittens, but most dogs and cats waiting for homes are actually older animals.

Like Sukie, these pets come with ready-made personalities, likes, dislikes, habits, and unique quirks. While younger animals can be playful and fun, older pets often have a calm nature, are already trained, and are full of affection waiting to be shared.

Adopting from a shelter gives an animal a second chance at happiness. It’s a kind and rewarding choice.

How Shelters Help

Shelters do a lot to prepare animals for new homes:

• They provide health checks, vaccinations, and microchipping.

• They neuter animals to prevent unwanted litters.

• They offer care and carefully match pets with families that suit their needs.

  
  

When you adopt, the shelter helps find a pet whose personality fits your lifestyle. It’s like family matchmaking.

How to Prepare for a New Pet

Thinking about bringing a pet into your home means planning ahead. Ask yourself:

• Do we have time every day for feeding, cleaning, and play?

• Is everyone in the home comfortable around animals?

• Can we afford food, vet care, grooming, and toys?

• Who will care for our pet during holidays or emergencies?

  
  

Answering these questions honestly helps ensure you and your new pet will have a happy life together.

What to Do When the Animal Doesn’t Seem to Adopt You

Sometimes, even when you’re ready and eager, the animal might not warm up to you right away. This can be discouraging, but it’s normal.

Animals in shelters may have had difficult pasts. They might be shy, scared, or unsure about new people. Here are some tips to build trust:

• Spend quiet time near them without forcing interaction.

• Offer treats or toys to create positive associations.

• Let the animal approach you on their own terms.

• Be patient and consistent with your visits.

  
  

Over time, many animals open up and show their true personalities. Your patience can make all the difference. We definitely found this with Sukie.

Bringing Your New Pet Home

Once you’ve adopted, prepare your home:

• Set up a safe, quiet space with a bed, food, water, and toys.

• Keep the environment calm during the first few days.

• Introduce family members slowly and supervise interactions.

• Maintain a routine for feeding and playtime.

  
  

Remember, your new pet is adjusting to a big change. Give them time to feel safe and loved.

The Joy of Adoption

Adopting an animal is more than just bringing home a pet. It’s welcoming a new family member who will bring love and companionship.

Older animals, in particular, offer calmness and gratitude that can enrich your life in unexpected ways. Even if they don’t adopt you right away, your commitment can help them feel safe and cherished.

Over  the years, our family have adopted many pets, dogs, cats and even a rabbit!. When Sukie adopted us she had been chipped. Did you now that in some countries, like the UK it is the law to chip a cat. Sukie is also neutered, and this reduces the annual cost of her pet insurance as illnesses can be costly  Just like people, Sukie gets annual vaccinations and check-ups. Our adopted animals are a member of our family and we love them very much..